When someone dies, the best advice I can give you is to forget the bad, and remember the good. It rights you on the path of grief, gets you going in the right direction.
The Bumpkin was 19. I was in a bar near Bourbon Street in New Orleans, me and another 60 or so people. We see the Grammy's playing on the television. A man comes from the kitchen in the back, with some of the other staff. "Shhhhhh...Shhhhhhhh. Please be quiet for just one minute." He climbs up to the TV, and manually increases the volume. For the next six minutes, you could have heard a pin drop. Some of you are much too young to have seen this, and recalled it's impact. I will never forget those 6 minutes. Yes, he was the King of Pop.
I'm gonna choose to remember this.......just this! For all you younguns take a trip back in time, via YouTube.
If you wanna make the world a better place, take a look at yourself, and then make a change.~ Michael Jackson 1958-2009